{"id":7060,"date":"2010-12-09T16:32:47","date_gmt":"2010-12-10T00:32:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beltdrivebetty.com\/wyzwmnsworld\/?p=7060"},"modified":"2010-12-09T16:39:06","modified_gmt":"2010-12-10T00:39:06","slug":"how-completely-disappointing-mean-people-suck","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/?p=7060","title":{"rendered":"how completely disappointing ~ mean people suck"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>it\u2019s a question of trust<\/p>\n<p>what do you do when your trust is betrayed?<br \/>\nwhen someone uses their knowledge of you<br \/>\nto intentionally hurt you?<\/p>\n<p>what do you do<br \/>\nwhen your trust is betrayed<br \/>\nby those you counted on as friends<br \/>\nor colleagues?<\/p>\n<p>what do you do when your trust is betrayed<br \/>\nintentionally?<\/p>\n<p>it\u2019s about choice really<br \/>\nyou can rail against them<br \/>\nyou can get angry<br \/>\nyou can allow your feelings to be hurt<\/p>\n<p>or you can take it under advisement<br \/>\nand learn a lesson<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m trying to live my life<br \/>\nsurrounded by a few choice people<br \/>\nthat I know I can trust<br \/>\nthe group used to be larger<br \/>\nhey\u2026that\u2019s life<\/p>\n<p>I can control the external<br \/>\nportions of my life<br \/>\nand not associate<br \/>\nwith those that hurt me<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not able to do so<br \/>\nin all areas of life though<\/p>\n<p>there are some arenas<br \/>\nin which I am not allowed control<br \/>\nover whom I associate with<\/p>\n<p>in the end<br \/>\nthere\u2019s nothing you can do<br \/>\nbut move on<br \/>\nunderstand<br \/>\nthat I cannot affect change<br \/>\non anyone but myself<\/p>\n<p>the lesson is learned<br \/>\nno one is trustworthy<br \/>\nno matter what.<\/p>\n<p>to quote Dr Terry Cole Whittaker<br \/>\n\u201cwhat you think of me is none of my business\u201d<\/p>\n<p>and to all you wee gossip hounds<br \/>\nthat can\u2019t stop yourself from<br \/>\nspreading the news<\/p>\n<p>fuck off!<br \/>\nmean people suck\ufeff<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/beltdrivebetty.com\/wyzwmnsworld\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/mean-people-suck.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7063\" title=\"mean people suck\" src=\"http:\/\/beltdrivebetty.com\/wyzwmnsworld\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/mean-people-suck-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/mean-people-suck-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/mean-people-suck-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/mean-people-suck.jpg 399w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>it\u2019s a question of trust what do you do when your trust is betrayed? when someone uses their knowledge of you to intentionally hurt you? what do you do when your trust is betrayed by those you counted on as &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/?p=7060\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7060"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7060\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7064,"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7060\/revisions\/7064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}