{"id":1786,"date":"2009-03-01T13:29:00","date_gmt":"2009-03-01T21:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beltdrivebetty.com\/wyzwmnsworld\/?p=1786"},"modified":"2010-09-29T18:25:28","modified_gmt":"2010-09-30T01:25:28","slug":"liar-liar-pants-on-fire-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/?p=1786","title":{"rendered":"Liar! Liar! Pants on Fire!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">While the visit with the blister is turning out to be a much more positive thing than I&#8217;d anticipated (so far, that is, I&#8217;m not after all delusional LoL)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">I&#8217;ve different issues on my mind&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Don&#8217;t you just hate liars?<br \/><\/span><\/span><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_llTCkOZXIY0\/SarymiQeoDI\/AAAAAAAABOY\/hZiOpGfQckU\/s1600-h\/liar.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 320px;\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_llTCkOZXIY0\/SarymiQeoDI\/AAAAAAAABOY\/hZiOpGfQckU\/s320\/liar.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5308321854654423090\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><\/p>\n<p>My grandmother used to say&#8230;. &#8220;if you are going to be a liar then be a damn good one&#8230;cos it&#8217;s only time till you get caught&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">she also said&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">&#8220;people who lie should get to know themselves cos they are destined to spend a lot of time alone&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Telling little lies to or about people sets a precedence that makes the liar untrustworthy&#8230;telling a lie and then blaming the person you originally lied to continues to show a serious lack of morals<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">the definition of &#8220;moral&#8221; is:<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">1. of, pertaining to, or concerned with the principles or rules of right conduct or the distinction between right and wrong; ethical: moral attitudes.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">2. expressing or conveying truths or counsel as to right conduct, as a speaker or a literary work; moralizing: a moral novel.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">3. founded on the fundamental principles of right conduct rather than on legalities, enactment, or custom: moral obligations.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">4. capable of conforming to the rules of right conduct: a moral being.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">5. conforming to the rules of right conduct (opposed to immoral ): a moral man.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">6. virtuous in sexual matters; chaste.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">7. of, pertaining to, or acting on the mind, feelings, will, or character: moral support.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">8. resting upon convincing grounds of probability; virtual: a moral certainty.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">\u2013noun<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">9. the moral teaching or practical lesson contained in a fable, tale, experience, etc.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">10. the embodiment or type of something.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">11. morals, principles or habits with respect to right or wrong conduct.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">as I get older I often wonder how liars look at themselves in the mirror<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">are they so ignorant of themselves that they don&#8217;t realize that each and every lie they tell diminishes them?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">are they so very unaware of what telling a lie does to their integrity?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">having a reputation as a liar makes the person seem disloyal and devious and if you are deemed<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">disloyal or devious with your words some of the time&#8230;.how can people believe you or trust you the rest of the time<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">do they think it doesn&#8217;t matter?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">are they so sure of their ability to manipulate people that they think it won&#8217;t matter?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">do they not see the patterns of self destruction in their own lives?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Over the past year I\u2019ve learned that when my purported friends lie to me and hurt me I have to hold them accountable. Their response to that accountability is what makes or breaks the friendship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">If my friendship means so little to you that you would lie and then blame it on me\u2026apparently I\u2019m in fool for believing in you and standing up for you when others have doubted you in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">You only get the opportunity to make a fool out of me once.  I&#8217;d rather spend my time alone and have no friends than be lied to.<\/p>\n<p>No Joke.<br \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While the visit with the blister is turning out to be a much more positive thing than I&#8217;d anticipated (so far, that is, I&#8217;m not after all delusional LoL) I&#8217;ve different issues on my mind&#8230;.. 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