{"id":1390,"date":"2007-06-13T21:06:00","date_gmt":"2007-06-14T04:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beltdrivebetty.com\/wyzwmnsworld\/?p=1390"},"modified":"2010-09-29T18:28:22","modified_gmt":"2010-09-30T01:28:22","slug":"maybe-its-the-position-of-the-moon-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wyzwmn9444.live-website.com\/?p=1390","title":{"rendered":"Maybe it&#8217;s the position of the moon?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>I\u2019ve read posts on a couple of blogs in the last few days outlining several bloggers feelings of unrest over their current \u201cemployment circumstances\u201d\u2026And as favourable as my new job is to me in wage and low stress levels it still seems that I must join their ranks.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Working at a school of any kind means that you spend your off season (the period between the end of April running to late Aug \u2013 early September) planning for the following year. As a \u201cstart up unit\u201d I have spent months listening to the wailing despair of my boss because she as an academic feels that she should not be held to the budget rigors as set by the local bean counters. <\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>In my mind I hear myself saying: \u201cyes, but it\u2019s the bean counters that rule business\u2026and at the end of the day\u2026a school is a business\u201d no?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>And I have recently spent 2 weeks correlating information backed up with statistics from our own work to prepare for the \u201cplanning stages\u201d of next year culminating in 2 weeks of pretty much sitting on my thumbs while waiting for the boss to \u201cget herself together\u201d enough to start planning next year. My co-worker and I have discussed add nauseum the need to focus on our core business and to make sure that our planning was based in knowledge needs not gut wants.<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>This morning, my boss sat at the desk of my co-worker and \u201cwhispered\u201d with her for 4.5 hrs in setting the guidelines for the 2 of them for the planning of next year. I sat across the room on my thumbs once again. This would be her version of teamwork.<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>At noon I got up for lunch and when I came back the boss was gone. Without a word to me as to what I will or will not be doing for the next couple of months while she fly\u2019s hither and yon making an ass of herself. And when I came back from lunch I had an email from her that was a major compliment for our unit&#8230;she forwarded it to me and her notation was one sentance: &#8220;it&#8217;s all about me!&#8221; &#8211; I keep thinking that she has got to be jokin&#8230;but she ain&#8217;t.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>The whole thing brings a multitude of thoughts forward for me.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>How incredibly rude!<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>What? Are we in grade school?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Just how much time can I spend surfing the web without feeling guilty?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>How could I have bought into her sales pitch? How could I (jaded old me) have taken her suggestions that this would be a place to foster \u201creal teamwork\u201d and \u201cexciting futures\u201d and believed them as the truth?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>How could I have possibly come to work for someone with less \u201cpeople managing skills\u201d than the doorknob?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>How could she not think that her little tete a tete with my co-worker today could not have been construed and exclusive as opposed to inclusive?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie? <\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>How could she, as a manager, and having read my resume and seen my work, not want my input?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>\u2026are not my skills and abilities what she hired me for?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>In good conscience can I continue to sit here with nothing to do and not bring it to her attention over and over again (I\u2019ve asked the co- worked twice a day for weeks if there is anything I can do to assist her)<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Is it wrong to expect to find some sort of satisfaction and feeling of contribution and\/accomplishment from my job?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Can I get much more bored and not snap my Twinkie?<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>I\u2019m concerned about the fact that I left a job that I\u2019d been at (with some success I might add) for 3 years to come here. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>I\u2019m concerned cos it seems to me that when the bean counters ask her to do something that is my forte she puts it off till the very last minute and then brings on the full kaleidoscope of histrionics over how much she hates doing it when I could have done it in a day or a week or an hour \u2013 and she\u2019s ever the martyr and stays all night burning the midnight oil cos she\u2019s so hard done by\u2026.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>I\u2019m concerned that I\u2019ve sacrificed my sanity\/patience for a retirement package and the ability to further my education cheaply.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>Mostly I\u2019m concerned that someday one o them bean counters is gonna find out how much they are paying me to be a glorified receptionist or the queen of photocopying and I\u2019m gonna end up worse off than I was before.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>I\u2019ve tried repeatedly to broach these subjects with her and her answer to me is that we\u2019re \u201ca team\u201d only we aren\u2019t \u2013 that\u2019s pretty obvious.<\/p>\n<p>When I call her on it she tells me I\u2019m \u201csnippy\u201d \u2013 I can\u2019t help but think that the time will come that I lose my temper with her\u2026and then she\u2019s gonna be very frightened\u2026.LoL<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:130%;\"><strong>The VOD thinks that she\u2019s scared of me\u2026I think she isn\u2019t \u2013 but at this rate she ought to be soon.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve read posts on a couple of blogs in the last few days outlining several bloggers feelings of unrest over their current \u201cemployment circumstances\u201d\u2026And as favourable as my new job is to me in wage and low stress levels it &hellip; 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